There have been occasions
when the media have acted dynamically and constructively by championing
cases of injustice. It would be wonderful if they did this more as well
as making connections about the lack of provisions for those affected
by violent crime. However, generally the media thrive on criminal horror
and it is too often presented as if it were a form of television drama
instead of factual, dignified, serious and measured reporting. This degrades
the people affected and creates an unpleasant and voyeuristic perspective
that sensationalises a violent criminal act. It also de-sensitises us
as a nation from horror because often real-life violence becomes blurred
with entertainment. As the media tries to capture every nuance of despair
as entertainment-style reporting, the victim’s own private and personal
tragedy is unfolding, a situation deserving dignity and not exploitation.
The media could do so much more good in raising the issues
of violence in society and the daily impact on and needs of victims. This
would ensure the needs of people receive the prominent political attention
they deserve. The media too often fails to produce sustained features
that seriously raise public debate and lay the constructive views of people
at the doors of the powers of government. The media could assist vulnerable
groups in many constructive ways rather than sometimes cheapening, and
adding a further dimension to, private tragedies.
If a recent private incident has taken place and the
media want attention
It is not advisable to make public what is, in reality,
your private and emerging agony. The media should be dealt with very carefully,
for although they can play a useful role, you must discuss with a lawyer
and the police what you can say and what you should not. This is because
it may have a negative effect on police investigations and the potential
for a successful prosecution. We have witnessed how the media has affected
several publicised court cases. This author strongly urges people not
to use the media as a source of attention and to remember that your personal
tragedy is only today’s news.
It may be better to have the
police or a solicitor read written statements and, for your privacy, it
is best to try to make yourself invisible and refuse photographs.
When you engage with the media, you will lose all privacy and this will
affect how well you are able to re-build your life and the lives of those
around you who are important and have also been affected. The British
media generally does not respect the grief of people and those about you
can often find themselves forever beholden to them - with or without consent.
Please refer to the section
in my handbook
about dealing with the media